by Stephanie Buehler | May 21, 2009 | Great Sex for Women, Orgasms, Sex in the News
Late last week, the media buzzed about a research article that suggested that "smart" women are more likely to experience orgasm than…dumb ones? [If you want the quick skinny, check Dr. Petra Boynton's blog posts, in which she criticizes...
by Stephanie Buehler | May 12, 2009 | Infidelity, Marriage and Relationships
In my last post, inspired by Elizabeth Edwards' book promo tour, I wrote about why affairs occur, and promised to post answers to solving a bad marriage, because in general having an affair isn't one of them.If sexual frustration is one of the reasons you are...
by Stephanie Buehler | May 5, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples, Performance Anxiety
I came across a good article at EmpowerHer by colleague Marty Klein, a marriage and family therapist, on what's normal when it comes to sex. The section that most interested me was on performance anxiety, a very common but not especially normal problem in...
by Stephanie Buehler | May 1, 2009 | Marriage and Relationships
"A Simple Marriage" is filled with simple marital advice. I guess it's written for simple couples. Do you know any simple couples? I don't.In fact, to me the idea that a marriage can be simple is simply ridiculous. My own...
by Stephanie Buehler | Apr 29, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples, Sex in the News
In this Toronto Sun article, Robin Milhausen, an assistant professor at the University of Ottawa, tells it as she sees it. Men, she reports, ask her how to make sex with a woman "astronomical." Her response? "Take out the...