by Stephanie Buehler | Apr 2, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples, Sex in the News
When couples who have been married or committed for a long time think about passionate sex, they generally are referring back to the earliest moments of intimacy in their relationship. They don’t know why sex felt better then, they just know why that it doesn’t...
by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 18, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples
In my article on why sex in marriage goes sour, the last reason I gave was that many people expect their partner to just "know" what it is they want when they make love, all without speaking a word.Ah, that it 'twas so easy! You know, when...
by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 16, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples
If you were a sex therapist, just how often do you think you would hear the phrase, "We just can't seem to find the time for sex!" That's right, about as often as you might hear, "Pass the salt." Sex seems to be at the bottom...
by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 11, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples
In a post last week, I listed a few reasons that sex goes sour in the marital bed (or in any long-term relationship). Today, I thought I'd focus on the third reason, that couples think that if they love one another, the sex will just be good, no thought or...
by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 6, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples
In my post on "When a Marriage Goes Sour," I name 5 things major problems that cause rifts in a marriage or long-term relationship, especially when it comes to sex. One of the major problems is a lack of education about sexual arousal, or how the body...
by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 5, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples
If you read my post on "When Marriage Goes Sour," you'll remember that I said I would address the reasons I laid out for sex not working in a marriage. One reason is that one or both couple members may have been raised in a very religious home, an...
