by Stephanie Buehler | Apr 21, 2014 | Male Sexual Problems, Marriage and Relationships, Women's Sexual Problems
You see them all around you: Couples that look happy enough, perhaps enjoying dinner at a popular restaurant, riding bicycles along a tree lined lane, or sharing popcorn as a movie. But they have a secret that they’re not telling: They argue about sex all the time....
by Stephanie Buehler | Feb 12, 2014 | Marriage and Relationships
Ah, Valentine’s Day! You can almost hear the birds sweetly tweeting, see the crocuses (croci?) crowning through the soil, and smell the spicy chocolate wafting through the air. Valentine’s Day—a sappy occasion to spend money? Or a day to honor your love for...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 30, 2014 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
All you have to do is turn your head when you’re in the check out line and you’ll see on any of several magazine covers: sex tips to stamp out bedroom boredom. You are advised to change positions or add a potion–apply here for better orgasms! What...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 3, 2014 | Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
A colleague on LinkedIn asked a provocative question: Should a spouse use sex as a reward or punishment? Of course, the short answer is no. But the topic got therapists, including me, chatting it up about how people use their sexual relationship to manipulate their...
by Stephanie Buehler | Dec 3, 2013 | About Sex Therapy, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
What do you know about people with Asperger Syndrome (also called Asperger’s Syndrome, or AS)? Most likely your impressions come from movies and television programs that feature such individuals, sometimes realistically but sometimes simply for the...
by Stephanie Buehler | Aug 27, 2013 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Men, Marriage and Relationships, Performance Anxiety, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
I get it. Premature ejaculation can be annoying. Sometimes a couple can’t even engage in intercourse, because ejaculation takes place so quickly. In some cases, a couple may have trouble getting pregnant. Women complain about being able to have an orgasm. ...