by Stephanie Buehler | Sep 14, 2010 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Orange County
Did you know that on average, couples wait seven years before they contact a therapist for help with their relationship? Sometimes, when the problem is sex, couples wait even longer. Imagine being married 10 years without having consummated your marriage....
by Stephanie Buehler | Aug 23, 2010 | Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Orange County
As a psychologist and sex therapist that has treated hundreds of couples in Orange County, I feel sad when I see a pair of people who have lost the core meaning and behavior of what it means to be in a human relationship. Based on my own nearly 25 years of...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jun 26, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships
Fireworks enchant us. They suggest fantasy and fun with fleeting moments of intense spark. That's why sex and fireworks are so often compared. But admit it, your sex life may have fizzled like an aerial display above a gloomy harbor.What is...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jun 17, 2009 | Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships
"I want to feel wanted," is a refrain I often hear from clients who are in the throes of a relationship meltdown. And what makes someone feel more wanted than having someone they cherish make passionate love to them? Unfortunately, all too...
by Stephanie Buehler | May 12, 2009 | Infidelity, Marriage and Relationships
In my last post, inspired by Elizabeth Edwards' book promo tour, I wrote about why affairs occur, and promised to post answers to solving a bad marriage, because in general having an affair isn't one of them.If sexual frustration is one of the reasons you are...
by Stephanie Buehler | May 1, 2009 | Marriage and Relationships
"A Simple Marriage" is filled with simple marital advice. I guess it's written for simple couples. Do you know any simple couples? I don't.In fact, to me the idea that a marriage can be simple is simply ridiculous. My own...