by Stephanie Buehler | Mar 17, 2014 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Couples, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
Many couples struggle with sex after the birth of a baby. In fact, it is so common a problem that most people just accept that sex is off the table with a new baby in the house. There’s just not enough sleep, time, or energy to go around. Midnight feedings,...
by Stephanie Buehler | Feb 18, 2014 | About Sex Therapy, Male Sexual Problems, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County, Women's Sexual Problems
Here’s a question that people sometimes ask when they call to get information before setting an appointment for sex therapy, “Should I (or my partner) see a male or female sex therapist?” The answer is, of course, it depends. But on what factors? ...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 30, 2014 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
All you have to do is turn your head when you’re in the check out line and you’ll see on any of several magazine covers: sex tips to stamp out bedroom boredom. You are advised to change positions or add a potion–apply here for better orgasms! What...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 21, 2014 | About Sex Therapy, Great Sex for Couples, Orgasms, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
Sex therapists frequently state that sex is about the journey, not the destination. Meaning, foreplay is more important than orgasm, and relationship is more important than foreplay. Fair enough, but sometimes what someone needs is a good toe-curling orgasm to...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 6, 2014 | Great Sex for Couples, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
Have you white knuckled it through the holidays so that you could get to the other side and make a decision about leaving your marriage? I have some thoughts for you, based on over a decade of working with couples. Too many people throw in the towel on marriages...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jan 3, 2014 | Great Sex for Couples, Marriage and Relationships, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County
A colleague on LinkedIn asked a provocative question: Should a spouse use sex as a reward or punishment? Of course, the short answer is no. But the topic got therapists, including me, chatting it up about how people use their sexual relationship to manipulate their...
