by Stephanie Buehler | Nov 4, 2015 | Uncategorized
A recent study demonstrated that men with Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) are more likely to have erectile dysfunction (ED) than other men. This is true whether the cause of ED is physical or psychological. The finding isn’t a surprise; sex therapy offices are...
by Stephanie Buehler | Oct 21, 2015 | Marriage and Relationships, Recovery from Affairs, Uncategorized
People, even therapists, are surprised that I have had a fair number of clients in my office seeking answers about themselves. Specifically, they want to know why they are having an affair, or affairs. Obviously, they realize that they are unhappy, but often they...
by Stephanie Buehler | Oct 6, 2015 | Orgasms, Uncategorized, Women's Sexual Problems
Women sometimes have problems having an orgasm. When it happens occasionally, it can be frustrating but usually the reason is easily identified–the person was tired or distracted, perhaps. But when a woman or man don’t have orgasms at all, that’s...
by Stephanie Buehler | Jun 23, 2015 | Sex Addiction / Compulsive Sexual Behavior, Sex Therapy in Newport Beach, Sex Therapy in Orange County, Uncategorized
A growing group of psychotherapists are questioning the idea that sex can be addictive. I, too, have struggled with the concept of addiction when it comes to sex. Some men (and it is mainly men, so I’ll use male pronouns) do seem truly out of control when it...
by Stephanie Buehler | Feb 26, 2015 | Uncategorized
Maybe you’re reading this out of curiosity–or maybe you’re reading it because it describes you. You’re way past the age when all of your peers have had sex, and you’re wondering how and why you ended up here. By age 27, all but 3% of the...
by Stephanie Buehler | Nov 14, 2014 | Uncategorized
Thanksgiving can be a busy, crazy time of year. Should Uncle Bud be seated next to Cousin Larry even though they haven’t spoken in years? Shall we do away with the “kid’s table” this year and take our chances? Order the feast, or prepare it ourselves? Forget the whole...