In my article on why sex in marriage goes sour, the last reason I gave was that many people expect their partner to just "know" what it is they want when they make love, all without speaking a word.Ah, that it 'twas so easy!  You know, when...

If you were a sex therapist, just how often do you think you would hear the phrase, "We just can't seem to find the time for sex!"  That's right, about as often as you might hear, "Pass the salt."  Sex seems to be at the bottom...

In a post last week, I listed a few reasons that sex goes sour in the marital bed (or in any long-term relationship).  Today, I thought I'd focus on the third reason, that couples think that if they love one another, the sex will just be good, no thought or...

In my post on "When a Marriage Goes Sour," I name 5 things major problems that cause rifts in a marriage or long-term relationship, especially when it comes to sex.  One of the major problems is a lack of education about sexual arousal, or how the body...

If you read my post on "When Marriage Goes Sour," you'll remember that I said I would address the reasons I laid out for sex not working in a marriage.  One reason is that one or both couple members may have been raised in a very religious home, an...

Recently I read a blog post on the Good Therapy website that caught my attention.  The blogger said that if sex isn't working in the bedroom, it's a good indicator that there are big problems in the rest of the marriage that aren't being...