5 Hip Tips for Better Male Sexual Performance
If you are looking for a natural enhancer, a prescription medication without a prescription, or a magical potion for better erections, scat. You don't want to be here.If you are looking for ways to understand your sexuality better and to have more pleasure...
Yes, Marriage and Sex Come Ahead of Your Kids
It happens again and again. Couples put their kids, their parents, their third cousins ahead of their marriage. Then they complain that they never have time for sex. Do you really want to have a sexless marriage? Kids don't stick around...
What Women Don’t Know about Male Sexuality
I could write on and on about male sexuality, but today I'm going to focus on the fact that women don't understand male sexuality very well at all. Even I don't think I understood it very well myself until I became a sex therapist. Now, about...
Bad Sex = Bad Communication x Poor Boundaries
So my little math lesson for today is an equation for bad sex. Yes, people do have bad sex. Awful sex. Stay awake at night in the dark, geez this is terrible sex.What makes sex bad? First of all, bad communication. I don't just...
Arriba! Mexican Mayor Gives Away Viagra for Sex in the “Third Age”
The Mexico City Journal ran an article about the mayor giving away Viagra to men in the "third age," or the "golden years." Mayor Marcelo Ebard got an itch in his pants, apparently, to give away this medicine to older men with erectile...
Post Valentine’s Funnies
I came across this link to the "25 Most Unromantic Album Covers" on the Houston Press website. Hopefully, your Valentine's Day didn't look like this!
Valentine’s Day: It’s Not About the Sex, Is It?
Is there anything more phallic than Cupid's bow? Any holiday symbol that looks more like a woman's tush when she's bent over? I don't know about you, but I think Valentine's Day is all about the sex.I had a little snicker just now,...
Fighting in Bed? Don’t.
Several months ago Hank and Paula came to see me with an all too common problem: their sex life had fizzled, in part because the man had developed erectile dysfunction. They were in their 30s, and though they were only married a few years, they had lived...
Erotic Valentine’s Day Ideas
Cory Silverberg, a sex educator and colleague who writes the About: Sexuality blog, has come up with a list of homemade, heartfelt, and sexy Valentine's Day gifts. I especially liked the idea of writing your own sex manual. Being sometimes pragmatic...
Spontaneous, Shmontaneous: Planned Sex and Romance Isn’t All that Bad
I got an e-newsletter from someone in which she said that she told her husband long ago that he needed a date like Valentine's Day to be reminded of romance, then romance didn't have much meaning. And then she added that she only wanted a card, nothing...
How to Have “Vacation Sex” at Home
Norma and Brett are like a lot of couples that love each other but have found their sex life has gone stale. On a scale from 0 (the worst sex, not even worth having) to 10 (multiple orgasms, falling off the bed, screaming skyrockets sex), their sex life has...